Most divorces fail before they begin.
I spent 25 years working on divorce cases. Then I lived through a high-conflict divorce of my own. I help people navigate what's coming before they make the first expensive mistake.
You already know something is wrong.
You're already running scenarios in your head.
You're already wondering what would actually happen if you did it.
The question isn't whether to talk to someone.
It's whether they've been through it themselves.
Who I work with
Considering divorce.
You haven't filed. You may not have told anyone. You're running the math, watching the marriage, and trying to figure out if you'd actually survive leaving. We talk through what's real, what's avoidable, and what filing actually looks like — before you make a move you can't take back.
Pre-filing.
In the middle of it.
You've filed, or your spouse did. Lawyers are involved. Decisions are flying at you faster than you can process. We work through your specific situation — what you're being told, what you're not, and what to push back on before it costs you.
Mid-divorce.
After the dust settles.
Post-Divorce.
The decree is signed but the work isn't done. Co-parenting with someone who won't communicate. Modifications that need to happen. A financial rebuild that nobody prepared you for. We work through what comes next — practically, financially, and emotionally — so you actually get to the other side instead of staying stuck in the wreckage.
I've been on both sides of this.
I didn't go through my divorce after 25 years of practice. I went through it in the middle of it.
While I was representing other people through theirs, mine was happening in real time. High-conflict. Years long. Costly in ways that don't show up on an invoice.
I came out the other side with something most people in this space don't have. I've sat in the lawyer's chair on 2,000 of these. And I've sat in the client's chair on one of the hardest ones I've ever seen.
I'm not a coach who read books. I'm not a lawyer selling retainers. I'm someone who's lived this from every side and learned what actually gets a person through it.
