The conversation your lawyer can't have with you.
A lawyer's job is to file the paperwork, argue the motions, and bill the hours. My job is to tell you what's actually happening — what you're walking into, what your spouse is probably planning, and what you're about to do that will cost you in five years.
I'm not your lawyer. That's the point.
You're somewhere in this.
You haven't told anyone yet. Maybe you've Googled at 2am. Maybe you're running the numbers on your phone in the bathroom. You don't know if you're going to do this — you just know something is wrong and you can't keep pretending it isn't. You don't need a lawyer yet. You need someone who can tell you what filing actually looks like, what it costs, and what your spouse is going to do the second they find out.
Or you're already in it. The papers are filed. The lawyers are talking. Decisions are being made faster than you can think. You're getting advice from your attorney, your friends, your therapist, your mom, the internet — and none of it agrees. You need someone who can sit across from you, hear the actual situation, and tell you what to push back on before it costs you.
Or it's technically over. The decree is signed. The custody order is in place. And you're realizing the fight didn't end — it just changed shape. Co-parenting feels worse than the marriage. The financial recovery is harder than anyone warned you. You need someone who's been on the other side of this and can tell you what comes next.
What you actually get.
Sixty minutes. Confidential. One-on-one with me — not a paralegal, not an associate, not a chatbot.
You bring the situation. The actual situation, not the cleaned-up version. What your spouse said. What your lawyer said. What you're afraid of. What you're not telling your friends.
I tell you what I see. After 25 years and roughly 2,000 cases, I can usually tell you within the first ten minutes what's coming, what your spouse's playbook probably looks like, and what your lawyer should be doing that they may not be doing.
We talk through the next 90 days. What to do this week. What to stop doing immediately. What to document. What to never put in writing.
You leave with clarity. Not a legal strategy — that's your lawyer's job. A real-world map of what's actually happening to you and what your options are.